Hi Kathy, I totally get where you are. I feel like I've grown beyond theology too and it makes me feel like I don't fit anywhere anymore. I think you've nailed the answer, they think their theology is the only way and unless people use the same terminology they do they're not saved. I'm so relieved to finally learn it's not my responsibility to convert anyone. I also think it's what Pete Enns calls the "sin of certainty". Religious people like to put boxes around their faith. It's easier than walking out the love your neighbor commands that Jesus modeled. Thank you for sharing, it's nice to meet other like-minded spiritual friends. I often feel too Christiany for most but not Christian enough for others! 🤣