Don't feel bad, it took me longer. I recently wrote about how I finally blocked an energy vampire from my life. She was following me on Medium and read the article! Then she emailed me and said she should have read my clues better. Like the one where I said I no longer had time or emotional energy to support her because I needed to support my life? Some people are have zero self awareness. I feel zero regret and only wish I had cut her off sooner!